Greg
- another triumph for life`s triers
Greg Dyke, the BBC`s D-G, left
school with just one A-level.
Amanda Foreman explains why late starters - she was one
herself - often turn into super-achievers.
What were Greg. Dyke's ambitions when he
was 18? Did he think, "I've been written off, but one
day I will show the world that Greg Dyke is an important
person." Or did he just want to own a flashy bike, like
his mates? That is the great question about late starters:
what happened to make them late?
When I was a teenager the one thing I wanted to do was follow
in my brother's footsteps and go to Cambridge. Considering
my exam results this was a complete fantasy. I tried, nevertheless,
and after three years of form filling, not only Cambridge
but 25 other universities on both sides of the Atlantic had
all turned me down. At the age of 20, I had a chip the size
of Wales on my shoulder. Nowadays, you could describe me
as a slow developer but, at the time, failure would have
been more accurate.
The pressure to shine at school is one of the most unfair
aspects of childhood. It is unfair for two reasons.
First, because the criteria for success are so contingent
on fortuitous genes. Some children just are acne-free, good
at sports, and clever; some are not.
As for the second reason, how often has it been repeated
that success at school is no guarantee of success in later
life? In fact, it can be a curse. It's the old School Captain
Syndrome. Life never again matches the glamour of being the
most important kid in school. What can be more galling as
an adult than knowing your glory days ended with the lst
XV, while that spotty bloke whom everyone picked on is now
the 30th richest man in Britain?
One of the problems with school and academic testing is
that it tests a child`s ability to be successful at school.
Children who do well are no doubt clever, but the tests do
not prove that the children who perform badly are stupid.
A teacher once told me that some of her most disruptive pupils
had also been the cleverest. Sheer boredom had turned them
into self-destructive terrors.
School is a wonderful place for children who fit the mould.
In a perverse way, it encourages mediocrity. There is little
in the way of helping the very clever and the very stupid.
That is no doubt why some of the greatest minds this century
were notable academic failures, including Pablo Picasso,
Albert Einstein, and Thomas Edison. The one thing they all
have in common is their originality: revolutionary thinking
is not what school is about. Nor is school about bucking
the trend, or controlling the marketplace: if you look at
Greg Dyke, John Brown (the chief executive of the bookmakers
William Hill), and James Dyson (the inventor of the bagless
vacuum cleaner), it is not only their lack of early success
that marks them out, but their staunch individuality and
unshakable belief in doing things their way.
The late film-maker Stanley Kubrick once admitted that he
had hardly learned a thing at school. "I didn't read
a book for pleasure until I was 19," he recalled. That's
roughly the age I started to read about history, long after
I had left school. I can't really explain why I failed to
show much promise at school, it wasn't for lack of trying.
I was very interested in learning, but very bad at displaying
the results. Although I have no hard feelings, I can honestly
say that, 12 years after leaving, I am still relieved to
be in the adult world. Children, as they say, can be so cruel.
Indeed, sheer unhappiness is probably one of the chief causes
of academic failure. It goes without saying that it is easier
for middle-class children from stable backgrounds and good
schools to get into university. The way is paved smooth for
them. But even children from privileged backgrounds cannot
always escape bullying. In my experience, many slow developers
were utterly miserable at school. They failed because the
teachers and/or other children were horrible to them, and
they lost their self-confidence.
A close friend of mine was tortured at school. There was
nothing wrong with his brain but he suffered from two defects:
he was very clumsy and almost breathtakingly ugly. In other
words, he was a nerd.
For 10 years the children bullied him and his teachers taunted
him. Whenever he entered the cafeteria people used to boo
and throw food at him. He was such a target for abuse that
even standing next to him was a terrifying experience, because
mere association could lead to appalling consequences.
My friend left school with few social skills. His first
job in London was as a lavatory cleaner. Without revealing
his identity, suffice it to say that he is now. a famous
writer, recognised by journalists and politicians alike as
an intellectual giant. It just took him an extra decade to
discover his true self. During those years, while his former
classmates were enjoying the fruits of a graduate salary,
he sat at home, berating himself for being a useless git.
Not long ago he told me that he received a letter from one
of his former schoolmates, asking for some professional advice.
As parents and teenagers contemplate life after exam results,
it is important to remember the Greg Dykes and Winston Churchills
of this world, not to mention my friend. If the choice were
between early school failure and prolonged adult success,
who would choose the former?
Of course, it rarely happens quite like that. Lots of people
start slowly and go nowhere. However, there are enough examples
to make initial failure a poor excuse for not trying in the
future.
Antony Beevor, acclaimed author of
the best-seller Stalingrad, cheerfully admits that he never
passed an exam in his life. But he refused to give up his
ambition to write. As George Eliot once said: "It
is never too late to be the person you could have been."
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